The Easy Way to Build and Maintain Meaningful Relationships with Nick Gray
#256: We break down the simplest, most effective ways to build stronger friendships and stay connected as an adult. Plus, learn how to build a personal website, host better events, send a friends newsletter, book a cruise on a budget, and so much more.
Nick Gray is an entrepreneur and author who built and sold two successful companies, Flight Display Systems and Museum Hack. His YouTube and short-form videos have reached over 55 million views.
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Resources Mentioned
Nick: X | Website | Friends Newsletter
- PersonalWebsite.org
- November 2025 Asset Allocation
- Personal Website Checklist
- The 2-Hour Cocktail Party: How to Build Big Relationships with Small Gatherings
RSVP Tracking
Free Amazon Fulfillment Center Tours
Cruises
Personal Domain Services
ATH Podcast
- Best Credit Cards
- Membership
- Newsletter
- Ep #68: Hosting Cocktail Parties, Building Relationships, Museum Strategies and Friends Newsletters with Nick Gray
- Ep #146: This Episode Changed My Perspective on Cruises with Emma Le Teace
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- Email for questions, hacks, deals, and feedback: podcast@chrishutchins.com
Full Show Notes
(00:00) Introduction
(01:00) How Nick Builds and Maintains Strong Relationships
(01:49) What Most People Get Wrong About Staying in Touch
(02:49) Why Making New Friends as an Adult Is So Hard
(05:49) Nick’s Simple Formula for Hosting a Great Cocktail Party
(07:25) Chris’s Holiday Cookie Party
(09:10) Better Ways to Handle Introductions and RSVPs
(13:26) Using a "Friends Newsletter" to Stay Connected
(14:47) What to Include in a Great Newsletter
(19:18) How to Send Your First Newsletter (Without Overthinking It)
(20:38) An Amazing Opportunity Nick Got from His Newsletter
(21:28) Easy Content Ideas: Purchases, Apps, Shows, and More
(24:33) Chris’ Attempt to Get on Below Deck
(31:04) What Excites Chris About Cruises
(33:19) Nick’s Take on Cruises (and the “Life-Plus” Mindset)
(36:11) Hacking Cruises and Cheap Cruise Strategies
(40:21) Why Everyone Needs a Personal Website
(43:06) Buying a Domain and Setting Up a Simple Homepage
(45:31) Getting Google to Notice Your Website
(49:06) When to Upgrade and What Content Belongs on Your Website
(52:17) Nick's Service for Building and Maintaining Your Website
(52:52) Nick’s Asset Allocation Post and the Value of Transparency
(53:46) Removing the Stigma Around Money With Friends
(59:21) Using AI for Doctor Appointments
Connect with Chris
Newsletter | Membership | X | Instagram | LinkedIn
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