Nov. 12, 2025

The Cost of Always Optimizing with Chris and Amy

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The Cost of Always Optimizing with Chris and Amy

#254: Chris and Amy share a candid look at their life together as two optimizers. They discuss everything from family finances and teaching their kids about money to managing their health, work, and travel.


Link to Full Show Notes: https://chrishutchins.com/ama-amy-marriage-parenting-health


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Full Show Notes

(00:00) Introduction

(01:44) Navigating Conflict and Different Spending Styles

(04:51) Why the Furniture Conversation Turned Emotional

(13:20) Amy's Process for Selling and Rehoming Old Items

(15:50) When Reselling Isn’t Worth the Time and Effort

(19:03) How to Teach Kids About Money at a Young Age

(23:39) How Chris & Amy Are Saving for the Kids’ Future

(31:13) Thinking About Technology and Social Media for Kids

(35:34) Free-Range Parenting and Encouraging Independence

(38:06) The Importance of Intellectual Curiosity

(40:06) Stepping Back From Work to Be Present with Young Kids

(44:54) Traveling With Kids

(49:05) Leveraging Lounge Access for Family Travel

(52:18) Comparing Lounge Access Memberships

(57:06) Amy’s Transition Into More Time at Home

(01:00:50) Making Proactive Health Decisions and Preventative Care

(01:07:46) How to Approach Supporting Aging Parents

(01:13:34) Coming Full Circle on the Furniture Debate


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